i'm a 23 year old of the estrogeny gender. i'm a bit of a dork but i like to think i'm still pretty fun. i'm happily married, ok. scratch that. i'm taken by my soul mate and my best friend brett, or as i call him beni dubois. beni and i are proud parents of a beautiful baby girl. i love drawing, painting, fire spinning, hooping, cartoons, comics, writing snail mail, blogging, wushu, and soul searching.